How can we really know what someone’s capable of…
when we don’t even fully know ourselves?
I’ve learned that trust is necessary, but it’s also fragile. We shouldn’t ignore the moments that make us pause the things that shake everything we thought we knew about someone. Those moments aren’t always obvious; sometimes they’re subtle, quiet, almost easy to overlook… until they hit hard.
The closest person can be your enemy, while a stranger can be your comfort. That’s the truth. And it’s wild how often we forget it. People show the world only what they want us to see. How they show up for me might not even look like how they show up for you. And that’s the part that can really catch you off guard.
If you find someone doesn’t celebrate your success when you’re shining, when you’re powerful, that’s a sign. Trust that feeling. Don’t brush it off. Your instincts are sharper than you think they’ve been guiding you all along.
This is not about being cynical. It’s about being awake, aware, and honest with yourself. People are layered, complicated, and unpredictable. Sometimes the people we least expect will surprise us… good or bad. And sometimes, the stranger who seems to just walk into your life will offer the comfort and support you’ve been missing.
So stay aware. Protect your energy. Celebrate yourself even if no one else does. Trust your instincts. And remember: no one is just one thing. Every relationship, every encounter is a reflection of perspective, timing, and choice.
Sincerely Me, Letters From the In-Between 